When I was young, I read lots of self help book. Most of it is about correcting our own flaws or bad habits.
I have tried but nothing really change except I have got myself some real life lesson.
instead of correcting the no big harm flaws, time should be use to enhance and strengthen our specialities.
I realized it since long ago , like two years ago.
George said :"you should be different from your peers because you are taking degree now. "
he also said :"you are no longer the same, your work should be a level above than others, you are taking degree arent you?"
is taking just for the sake of promotion and salary increase ? no... i want to challenge myself, i want to learn more, i want to be busy, i want to be competitive.
when you are motivated by intrinsic motivation, you will be more willing to do more , to sacrifice more.
I could said I fear and respect George. He made me realized we shouldnt do work just for the sake of done. we should do it perfectly.
realized that academic and learning is one of my speciality, i can catch up real easy and fast with self learning.
i can learn a new language very fast with guide. Just like what vygotsky said the zone of proximal development through scaffolding.
Then what is ur strength ?
do something about it.
